I would definitely ask him to leave while I sorted things out, and I agree with the questions LA posted for you to ask yourself. I think it's most important to know if he's remorseful at all, or if he's willing to work on it.
I don't think I could forgive. I know I couldn't. I got screwed by an ex in a similar fashion and though we weren't married, I swore I'd never let a man make me feel like that big of a loser ever again in my life.
I hope you can make the decision that is best for you. I think you need to sort things out in your head before you can make any big decisions. ((hugs))
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