Thank you so much for the welcomes and the lovely wishes, ladies!
We are getting into some kind of routine slowly but surely. I am still in recovery state and feeling exhausted often. Xiaoyu is feeding on the breastmilk like a champ. She cries so loud when she's hungry during the day, at night she's almost sleeping through the night, waking up a couple of times to ask for milk. I don't pump, so I just have to move closer to her for her to feed, so that helps with my sleep.
Living with my parents also helps tremendously.
The only downside is the fact that we are still not united as a family with Lan at the moment. Unfortunately, the earliest we might be able to travel (or Lan will be able to come here) could be next year... but things are looking up and improving so hopefully it's going to be earlier than what we think it is.