As a kid, I didn't much get to do extracarriculars. I've been seriously excited for when my girls are old enough and wanting to join clubs and sports. I would totally be leaning towards finding a way to get other tickets so she could participate... But honestly, that's just me. And maybe even if that situation did come up for me, it wouldn't work, and my kids would have to miss, I don't know. I just think I would be trying hard to find a way for it to all work.
That said, it is totally your choice. You know how much the wedding means(I can understand that, dh and I went to the courthouse, too) and your daughter sounds like she might understand that you want everything to work out, but sometimes it just doesn't. She does at least know you're trying to make it work out. It's a tough decision either way!
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