I agree with Dana. Offer to either video or audiotape memoirs. If she's got young kids, maybe tape her reading a bedtime story. Write down advice, recipes, stories, etc that she wants to pass along to the kids. Does she want to write letters for the boys to open on future birthdays, wedding days, etc? If she does but can't physically do that, offer to be her secretary...record them for her and then type them up. That sort of thing.
Let her know what you will be there for her kids...I know that would be my biggest concern.
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