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Originally Posted by LJSDesigns
I think the "love language" talk is really interesting too, because it is so different for everyone. I guess giving is my love language. I do put a lot of thought and time into planning and choosing my gifts, but I wonder if expressing love that way makes me shallow? Of course expressing emotions is not easy for me, so it only makes sense I show it in a different way. My father was the same way, so I guess I come by it honestly.
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No, it's not a shallow vs deep thing at all. My cousin is a gift person, and she is the deepest person I know. I think it's more that it's difficult when family members have different love needs and won't recognize that others might not feel loved the same way they do? I DO enjoy gifts and I appreciate thoughtful gifts from others, but coming up with good gift ideas and having a good attitude about the whole Christmas gift exchange thing is a struggle for me.