I so get you on this too and I often feel the same way. I have many "good" friends that I have made along the way from childhood, high school and since I have been in the Air Force. They are the kind of friends that no matter what happens or how long it been since we saw each other or talked, we can pick right up where we left off like no time has passed at all. I so cherish those friendships.
But now, I try to make friends and invite people over for dinner, out to event, and to go shopping but I/we never get invited. I often ask the "is it me?" question to my husband too. The "friendships", if you want to call them that, have been very shallow on fleeting and often seems one sided.
I have been in San Antonio, TX for 6 years and only recently developed a wonderful friendship with the girl across the street and of course, we are now moving from to Riverside, CA at the end on Sept.
So now it's time to start all over again. Yippee :-/
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