My parents are divorced. My dad never had set visitation times, we just went with him whjenever it worked out for all of us. My dad and my sister's mom also got divorced, he had a set amount of time he has her for, but they change it together each time the time comes up. I think its ridiculous that your ex cannot be accomadating. I would make sure to write that down and when it comes time for the actual visitation and custody hearings, you get that set in writing since he doesn't seem to want to flex at all. I know its barely ever possible, but as my dh's friend and his ex are going through a very messy divorce right now, I just wish people could be more adult during that tough time. Be nice to eachother, it shows with the kids. Good luck!
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