Lena, to be fair...I left him without notice and kept the kids all month - he got to see them for 3.5 hours the day that he served me with his parenting claim and then got to have them for the night when I served him. So altogether, in a month, he saw the kids for less than 24 hours. So I *get* why he's being difficult about this extra day...I was just wondering if it has to be written out. I guess it does, and I'll talk to my lawyer and make sure that it's in the final custody agreement.
