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Old 01-15-2009, 03:39 PM
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Hi all, just wanted to thank you all for all the wonderful support and prayers. I got my results today and unfortunately my numbers are dropping. So this little one just wasn't meant to be. I was talking to the OB's nurse and she said expect it to be like the worst period you ever had in your life. Who decided that it should happen like that. Seriously, as if its not just emotionally tramatic it also has to be physically tramatic. So not fair!!!
I'm hoping I'm one of those lucky ones that its just not that bad to experience. One can hope, right?
Anyhow, hopefully in a few months I'll have happy news to share adn taht that will end better than this one! I'm so thankful for this place though. You guys have really helped me out. Especially as none of our family knew we were even pregnant. And I'm pretty sure I'm not going to tell them about the loss. Then they'd know we were trying, and that we'd likely be trying again in the future and I don't need that kind of pressure from them. They love us a lot, but they drive us crazy! So thanks!
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:41 PM
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BIG HUGS. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts.

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Old 01-15-2009, 03:41 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:42 PM
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(((hugs))) My SIL has lost 3 pregnancies and we didn't even know about the last one until much later - it seems that one was the easiest on her because she didn't have to tell anyone.

HUGE (((hugs))) for you, though! I can only imagine how hard this is for you!
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:42 PM
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I'm so sorry, Emily. I don't even know what to say, so just imagine a big ol' hug coming your way, ok?

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Old 01-15-2009, 03:43 PM
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Oh Emily I'm so sorry. Huge hugs!!! I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:44 PM
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((HUGS)) Emily - so sorry that your wee one couldn't be here on earth with you. Take the time that you need to mourn his/her passing. I'm so sorry.
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:46 PM
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I'm so sorry Emily, I've been there. ((hugs)) I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:48 PM
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SO sorry to hear this sweetie! Hang in there and take care of you during this emotional time! I am here if you need anything!! ((BIG HUGS))
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:49 PM
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Thanks everyone. I think there's some scraptherapy in my future.

On a very positive note though, my doctor also did a Complete Blood Count as well. And my numbers were all within range. Which is really great for me as I have ulcerative colitis and my white blood counts tend to get wacky at times. So this is very good news for trying to concieve again. And it helps me to know that it wasn't the UC that caused the loss. Somehow knowing it didn't cause the loss helps me to feel better about it. Don't know why, but it does.

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Big big hugs Emily. I've been there before, if you need to talk, I am only a PM away. Take care of yourself.
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:51 PM
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((hugs)) I'm always around if you want to chat about stuff k? I've been through it myself... hang in there (I know easier said than done).
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:53 PM
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Big Hugs Emily!!!! I'm sorry for your loss. I've been there twice.
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Old 01-15-2009, 03:54 PM
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Huge hugs, Emily, I'm so so so sorry.
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:06 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:06 PM
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I'm so sorry, Emily. I'll be praying for you and your family.
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:27 PM
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Aw, sweetie! I'm so sorry! I just wanna give you a big hug! I don't know what you're feeling, as I haven't had the privilege of being pregnant yet, but I'm still sitting here in tears for you. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose someone so special! (((HUGS)))
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:32 PM
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Aww, so sorry to hear that. ((more hugs))
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:35 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:52 PM
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I'm so so sorry sweetie. I wish I had some words for you that would make it easier but I am kind of screwed up here so words aren't my strong point today. So I am just sending you massive (((((hugs)))))). Hugs Crystal xxx
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Old 01-15-2009, 05:07 PM
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Thanks so SO much everyone! Seriously, it is so wonderful to have the support of you all.
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Old 01-15-2009, 05:09 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 05:11 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 05:32 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 05:49 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 05:50 PM
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Old 01-15-2009, 06:01 PM
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Oh Emily! I am SO SO sorry for your loss! Hang in there, we are all here for you! HUGS!!!
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Old 01-18-2009, 02:48 PM
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Old 01-18-2009, 06:06 PM
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Old 01-18-2009, 06:18 PM
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(((((((((Hugs))))))))))))) I know how hard this is. So sorry this happened. I hope you find peace and work through it all ok.
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Thanks so much everyone. I really appreciate all your support. Scrapping is helping. Though my pets are seriously working my nerves. Between the cat who ate a bunch of my herbs in my aerogarden adn the dog who ate my pot roast today. Well, lets just say they're both pretty lucky they are still living! Maybe they're trying to distract me...
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I am so sorry you have to go through this. I have gone through this before. It is probably better that you didn't mention it. that is a hard phone call to make. Or when you miss someone and then weeks later they ask. Hang in there. Don't worry and stress about it. Your body need to recover and get ready for the next time. You already know your body can do it it just wasn't the right time. Get some rest!
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