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Old 08-26-2011, 05:27 PM
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Thumbs down I just got laid off....



ETA: I probably should have elaborated. Yesterday we had a floor-wide meeting and the CEO warned us that there would be company-wide lay offs. But also praised our division for doing so well, blah blah blah. Yea, then I got let go today. Low man on the totem pole gets cut first.
It's the worst timing on EARTH. I won't be able to job hunt until OCTOBER because of the big vacation we have planned next month. And then I'll get screwed on maternity leave once the baby comes. ::sigh:: Jordan filled out the paperwork this afternoon to have me added to his insurance, so that least there's that I guess.
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:28 PM
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Hon, I'm so sorry. Why???
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:28 PM
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OMG! Seriously? I'm so sorry, Col! That just sucks!
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:29 PM
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Col - I'm so sorry to hear that hon! Hope you'll find something even better than you last job in a hurry.
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:31 PM
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Oh Col! I'm so sorry!!! Are you ok?
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:36 PM
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:37 PM
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Can they do it when you're pregnant? Hereabouts they can't. But I guess they can if they did. :-(
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Not really. I'm super upset. I was completely blind sided by it. It wasn't performance based, it was just seniority. 6 years of my life there, and that's the thanks I get. 2 hours to clean out my cubicle and hand in my key.

We'll be fine, we'll figure things out. But, you know. Still. ::sigh::
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:40 PM
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:41 PM
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That's terrible. I guess there never is a good time for that to happen. So you were the last hired? When I first saw your post, I thought ..... lawsuit! Discrimination against the pregnant girl!
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:43 PM
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well... that just sucks!! Geez, when is this economy going to turn around and there are jobs for people? {{hugs}} and I hope that you find something quickly!
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I was not the last hired in my department (which has all of 5 other people in it), but I do/did have the least seniority.
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I am so sorry Col Maybe this could turn into you being a SAHM for a little while...if that is something you want to do of course.
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:48 PM
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Oh no! I'm so sorry! I had thought discrimination at first, too.

Sometimes when these things happen, they become blessings and you end up with a WAY better job you love more, but would never have had if you had not been laid off. Def not easy to see now, but I'm hoping it will work out for you and you'll be even happier then you were before. I'm so sorry, with the timing.

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I am so sorry Col Maybe this could turn into you being a SAHM for a little while...if that is something you want to do of course.
I would love to be a SAHM, but we can't afford that right now. Possibly if we were to move to Pittsburgh though, which we're now considering. Jordan's really pissed off by the whole thing, and no longer has any loyalty to the company at all. The whole thing is just shitty.
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Old 08-26-2011, 05:59 PM
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So sorry for you, Colleen. Is there any chance you can make a scene and milk them for some compensation money? I know the laws are a lot different in the US, but surely they don't want bad reputation, firing a pregnant woman...

In any way, I will keep you in my thoughts and keep my fingers crossed for you. The little good thing in all this is, whatever company you will work for next, you know they won't have a problem with a working mommy. That's at least worth something.

I hope a new door will open for you soon.
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Old 08-26-2011, 06:04 PM
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Oh Colleen, I'm so sorry. Where one door shuts, another opens I hope. I firmly believe everything happens for a reason, and for our growth (though we often don't feel it at the time). Prayers coming your way that you will find the path God wants for you.
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That seriously just sucks...again I'm so sorry and I'll keep you in my thoughts that something bigger and better comes along.
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Old 08-26-2011, 06:29 PM
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Oh, I'm so sorry! That TOTALLY SUCKS!! (((hugs))

P.S. I didn't know they could do that! Here is forbidden by a federal law to fire a preggo up to 6 months after delivering the baby. If you adopt a child who is less than 1yo, you have the same maternity rigths.
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((HUGS)) That happened to me, too, Col I was laid off from B&N the week we found out I was pregnant with Connor. Our plan had been for me to stay home once he was born...our plans were just moved up.

Hopefully, this will give you time to sort things out, recover from your sickness, and form a great game plan that will be better for you than now. I hope it work sout!
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Oh Col, I'm so sorry!!! I thought engineering jobs were the safest right now.
The government has no money to fund stuff. The Fed isn't handing out money, and lots of state projects are being put on hold because of it. Awesome, considering our nations infrastructure is in complete shambles right?

I'm still in the "shocked and angry" phase right now.
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yea that really sucks. First thing I thought iis that they knew you'd likely be taking time off for maternity leave and its easier to let you go now then to wait til then. We have been through this in the past with my husband and I agree you do usually find a way better job somewhere else. I know he did when it happened with him. I am sure you will too.
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I'm so sorry! I was laid off this year too but I wasn't pregnant, and I hadn't been there 6 years like you! I know when I was laid off I couldn't discuss my severance package specifically, but did they at least take care of you in that way? Or can you get unemployment? I know you'll work it all out, but the timing of it all still stinks. (((hugs)))
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No severance. I'm filing for unemployment this weekend. ::sigh::
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That's so terrible that they didn't give severance....I'm glad you can file for unemployment...how is the market for bridge engineers or whatever it is that you do? I've never quite understood but it all sounds way over my head!

A civil engineer that I'm friends with here in Lex got laid off two weeks ago, after surviving her firm's layoffs last year....seems to be going around.
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