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Old 01-08-2013, 09:38 AM
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I was selling some cloth nappies online and last week I got in touch with some girl who was interested in starting cloth diapering. She was expecting her third baby. She asked me on various nappies types, caring, brands etc.
Today she wrote me a short e-mail saying she had been at the doctor yesterday and she had lost their baby.
I have never seen her before and wrote only few e-mail to her, but it took me strong somehow and I am sitting here at the PC, crying and thanking God for my baby who is peacefully sleeping in out MT bed...
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Old 01-08-2013, 09:45 AM
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Oh, such heartache!
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Old 01-08-2013, 09:56 AM
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I'm so sad for her.
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Old 01-08-2013, 11:32 AM
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That makes me so sad because I know how she must be feeling right now. Miscarriage is so painful...physically and emotionally. I'll keep her in my thoughts.
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Old 01-08-2013, 11:42 AM
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Such very sad news...

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Old 01-08-2013, 11:45 AM
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So much hurt in this world...
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Old 01-08-2013, 11:52 AM
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So sorry to hear this, hang in there Zora. {Hugs}
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Old 01-08-2013, 11:53 AM
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So sad. I think it is beautiful that you have so much empathy that you are hurting for her. Miscarriage is so cruel and horrible. I went through it a few months ago and I'm still struggling. If you haven't already you might want to tell her how sorry you are and let her know you have cried for her loss. When I lost my baby it helped me so much when people said they were sorry. I also desperately wanted someone other than me to cry for the baby dying and no one did. I think it would mean a lot to her that someone cared. You also might want to share this link. It is an organization which provides support to families who have miscarried or had a still birth. http://www.nationalshare.org/ since you used the word nappies I'm thinking she isn't in the US but if she is they have support meetings around the country which are extremely helpful. If she isn't in the US the site may still be helpful. Both you and her will be in my thoughts.
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Old 01-08-2013, 01:43 PM
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Oh Zora, that is heartbreaking news.
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Old 01-08-2013, 02:12 PM
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I got a similar email shortly after my daughter's baby shower. A friend of her's who had twins and one passed away in the hospital from an infection and from my understanding had had previous miscarriages had just announced she was pregnant. She asked me if I would do some family pictures of her and her husband and son when she got a little further along. Then a few weeks later she sent me a message to say she wouldn't be doing the maternity photos because she had miscarried. I already knew she had from my daughter but it made me feel really sad for her as well. The loss to me is the same as losing a baby or child because you love them from the second you learn you are pregnant. I agree with the person who said to email her and express your condolences for her loss and let her know you have cried for her loss as well.
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Old 01-08-2013, 03:23 PM
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So Sad Zora, its always heartbreaking to hear that news from anyone whether you know them or not.
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Old 01-08-2013, 03:34 PM
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oh zora, that's so sad!
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This is always so heartbreaking. I am so sorry for their loss.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:00 PM
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Oh I'm so sorry! I don't think it matters whether we know someone or not, losing a child is never an easy thing. It's just too personal. Blessings.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:58 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. There is nothing worse than losing a child
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:35 PM
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That is really sad I assume if she was looking into diapering, she was pretty advanced in her pregnancy too. How devastating!
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Old 01-08-2013, 07:26 PM
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Very sad. I know a lot of us can empathize as miscarriage is so much more common than most people realize.
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:07 PM
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Well I have tears in my eyes for both of you. So heartbreaking.
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Old 01-10-2013, 07:49 AM
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That is so sad!
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Old 01-10-2013, 02:58 PM
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