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Neverland Scraps
Jabber-Jawbreaker
Registered: May 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 5,137
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Wed August 11, 2021 9:04am
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I have no idea who I am these days. I thought I was a wife, loved by a man who would stand by my side for forever. However that turned out to not be true as we have filed for divorce and have gone our own separate ways. I thought I was a mother, but these days I feel like the children are being pulled away from me in a custody battle. I am one who loves to document, however these days I find it hard to document as it has been negative after negative. Sure there are good moments, but those moments do not pay the bills or keep my children here at home. Who am I - I am a child of God, a daughter to my parents, sibling to my brother and sister. Am I happy - Yes and no. I have my moments. Will life get better, of course it will. Just for now things are upside down and I am trying to figure out what this next chapter of my life is going to look like, who will be part of it and who I am outside of defining myself through my past, children and family. Who am I - confused seems to be the answer these days. Searching, wanting a new, happier life with someone to share memories.
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Kimberly27
Sweet Talker
Registered: August 2013 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 4,405
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Wed August 11, 2021 9:17am
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HUGS! Beautiful page and tribute to YOU! You are beautiful and strong. I applaud you for putting yourself out there for everyone. I am glad you feel safe here at SSD.
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KristinCB
Sweet Shoppe Designer
Registered: May 2007 Location: British Columbia, Canada Posts: 17,395
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Wed August 11, 2021 9:34am
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you're amazing in so many ways
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AmieN1
SugarBabe
Registered: September 2015 Location: Spokane, WA Posts: 4,899
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Wed August 11, 2021 9:47am
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Oh wendy- this (and you!) Are absolutely beautiful. I'm so happy to see you scrapping again- hopefully this will be good for your soul too!
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allyanne
SugarBabe
Registered: February 2012 Location: NE Ohio Posts: 5,738
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Wed August 11, 2021 9:59am
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LOVE seeing your beautiful face and your pages back in the gallery! I'm sorry you've had some hard times--praying for you and sending hugs! This page is absolutely gorgeous.
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iScrap
Banned
Registered: June 2011 Location: NYC Posts: 2,804
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Wed August 11, 2021 10:20am
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Divorce and custody battles are so, so hard. You WILL get through this and you WILL be even more amazing. I hope scrapping again will help you feel less confused and more joy!
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Leablahblah
Jabber-Jawbreaker
Registered: November 2013 Location: Baltimore, MD (origin: France) Posts: 8,375
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Wed August 11, 2021 10:52am
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Oh Wendy I had no idea there was a custody battle! I'm so so sorry! If you feel the need to chat, please PM me.
This is a beautiful heartfelt layout and you are a beautiful woman even though you feel lost right now. You will be empowered again. It just takes time. Big hugs!
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Kiana
Jabber-Jawbreaker
Registered: December 2014 Location: Michigan, USA Posts: 5,499
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Wed August 11, 2021 11:06am
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Sentiments of all the others you know how I feel about you. You are amazing. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts. Always.
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StacyLynn
Sweet Talker
Registered: May 2018 Location: PA Posts: 1,015
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Wed August 11, 2021 11:21am
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Oh my! Big hugs and prayers to you during this tough time!! And what everyone else said above!! Your All About Me page is beautiful!!
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wimpychompers
Sweets
Registered: June 2009 Location: Southern California Posts: 265
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Wed August 11, 2021 6:21pm
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I want to give you a big hug! lol. I love this layout, it's beautifully done and so well written. You can tell you spoke from the heart.
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jaye
SugarBabe
Registered: December 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 3,296
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Thu August 12, 2021 7:33am
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I am so glad to 'see' you and happy that you are back. I am so sorry that life has been difficult for you. You will make your own way, become even stronger, and have a good life. I"m here for you ♥. As for your page, it's stunning!
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Lidia G
Sweet Talker
Registered: April 2020 Location: Quebec, Canada Posts: 2,691
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Thu August 12, 2021 8:09am
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So sorry you are going through such a difficult time in your life. You are beautiful and amazing. Your page is beautiful!
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kristalund
SugarBabe
Registered: June 2011 Posts: 7,342
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Fri August 13, 2021 6:11am
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This is so pretty! I love the handwriting font.
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carrie1977
SugarBabe
Registered: August 2009 Location: Central California Posts: 10,707
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Mon August 16, 2021 6:55am
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This is beautiful, Wendy...and so.are.you.! Love seeing your face. Thank you for sharing your story with us, too.
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Cheryl Ashcraft
Sweet Shoppe Designer
Registered: May 2008 Location: Northwest Florida Posts: 1,251
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Mon August 16, 2021 9:57am
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I knew I had been seeing less of your layouts on Facebook but thought maybe you were just taking a social media break. I'm sorry to read about your divorce. It's such a hard thing to navigate, but it also sounds like you are discovering you can be who you authentically are now instead of having someone else dictate to you. The layout is absolutely gorgeous, along with your beautiful selfies. You are such a master scrapper!
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