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Sweet Talker
Registered: November 2009 Location: France (Loire Valley) Posts: 2,358
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Sun November 14, 2021 3:23am
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Oh Sweetie, just to say I love you and I am here for you if you need! Hope things will come back to normal soon and that you can enjoy your pregnancy quietly.
I think a lot of you!
Lots of love and hugs 
You scrap your feeling so beautifully hope it helps you to scrap it too!
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kristalund
SugarBabe
Registered: June 2011 Posts: 7,352
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Sun November 14, 2021 7:02am
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Wow- so creative and just beautiful! Sending you hugs!
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Lidia G
Sweet Talker
Registered: April 2020 Location: Quebec, Canada Posts: 2,690
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Sun November 14, 2021 7:50am
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Sorry to hear that you're going through a bit of a rough patch. You scrapped your feelings beautifully! Sending you a big Canadian bear hug
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norton94
SugarBabe
Registered: December 2007 Posts: 6,780
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Sun November 14, 2021 11:55am
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(((HUGS))) anxiety is from feeling out of control of things and pregnancy is prime time since even your body is less in your control. I'm sorry it's been a struggle to balance it all and just be able to enjoy the nesting and pregnancy going on. XOXOX this emotional page is awesome
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HeatherB
Sweet Talker
Registered: December 2007 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,194
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Sun November 14, 2021 12:26pm
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Oh no, sorry to hear you are going through some things. I hope you continue to enjoy your pregnancy. Love the mood you created with your page!
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Saar
SugarBabe
Registered: September 2011 Location: Belgium Posts: 23,202
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Mon November 15, 2021 1:16am
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Thank you so much for all your kind words.
Krista, this makes so much sense!
I'm a little overwhelmed by my father in law. He is building a shed in our backyard. He promised us a shed in two weeks. Well, it's nearly been two months. He comes to work on it every day, but it is going so slow.
And I really don't want to sound ungrateful, because I am grateful. But he's not nearly halfway there.
And we really need the shed for storage, so we can empty our spare room so I can paint my baby's future room and decorate it. I want to have his room ready when he arrives. I'm just so scared that it won't happen in time. My due date is still 4 months away, but I won't have a shed for at least one to two months.
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just_jo
So Sweet
Registered: February 2021 Location: The Deep South Posts: 397
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Mon November 15, 2021 10:12am
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Beautiful layout... pray that it all works out for you quickly.
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Kimberly27
Sweet Talker
Registered: August 2013 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 4,412
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Mon November 15, 2021 4:50pm
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Beautiful feelings layout and big hugs! I hope things settle out soon and you can relax and enjoy these last several months
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SeattleSheri
SugarBabe
Registered: June 2008 Posts: 8,603
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Mon November 15, 2021 7:13pm
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Big hugs Sarah!!!! Sorry you're feeling that way. I hope it was cathartic to scrap about it. I love how your page turned out!
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HeatherH
SugarBabe
Registered: August 2017 Location: Maine USA Posts: 3,186
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Tue November 16, 2021 5:00am
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What a powerful page! I hope things settle down for you soon so you can enjoy the pregnancy more!
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LynnZant
Jabber-Jawbreaker
Registered: June 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 5,592
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Tue November 16, 2021 5:26am
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Aaaw, hugs! Your emotions are ramped up right now. You'll get through this. Amazing way to document your feelings!
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Saar
SugarBabe
Registered: September 2011 Location: Belgium Posts: 23,202
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Tue November 16, 2021 5:54am
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Thank you all so much for your sweet words, ladies!
That helps a lot. 
I know I'm probably just overreacting. I just want to have his room ready as soon as possible.
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Leablahblah
Jabber-Jawbreaker
Registered: November 2013 Location: Baltimore, MD (origin: France) Posts: 8,430
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Tue November 16, 2021 12:00pm
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You know, nobody prepares you for the mental part of pregnancy. We are pretty much alone in all of it. I hope you have some close friends who have gone through pregnancy and having children that can listen to you and guide you through it. It's very stressful and we don't have all the answers. And even if you are looking for answers, you will get so many different ones and some that don't necessarily align with the way you want to do things.
And yes, having baby's room ready was one of my things too. Ben is an architect and loves project and he took on remodeling our first baby's room from the bare bones (down to the studs) and the dust was so stressful for me. He got it done in time though and I was able to nest and relax. But also know that your baby won't suffer if he sleeps in the same room as you for a few months if his room isn't ready yet. And that was actually my preference to sleep with baby because it was so much easier to breastfeed and diaper change and all while being close. We had enough room to have the crib in our room for a while.
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Leablahblah
Jabber-Jawbreaker
Registered: November 2013 Location: Baltimore, MD (origin: France) Posts: 8,430
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Tue November 16, 2021 12:01pm
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And all the advice you didn't ask anybody to give haha
But also I forgot to say how much I love your layout. You don't do art journaling very often but boy! I love it!
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Saar
SugarBabe
Registered: September 2011 Location: Belgium Posts: 23,202
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Wed November 17, 2021 1:57am
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Thank you so so so much, Lea! Your reply is much appreciated.
I have my mom whom I can vent to. And I have two close friends from work, to whom I can vent to as well.
We probably put the crib in our bedroom as well, for the first few months. I prefer to sleep with my baby as well. I think it's a lot safer.
The crib will fit into our room as well. But not his closet and the changing table and everything else that goes with it.
I am very grateful to my father in law that he is willing to build us a large shed. I just wished the didn't say that he would have it finished in two weeks lol.
He comes here almost every day. He is preparing a lot of stuff like cutting the wood in the right sizes. So at the end he can put all things together faster. It's just that I don't see any progress on the build itself. Oh and yes, I can relate to what you say about the dust! The shed is in our backyard, so he keeps running in and out the house with dirty shoes. I have to clean and mop the floor every night after he is gone.
I know it's temporary. It's just exhausting.
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