Your first post made me giggle a little La because I feel the same way about my boyfriend! Like I don't spend enough time, like everyone else is doing a better job at relationships... but I think it's just the whole facebook thing. How did anyone ever have fun or interact with people in rl without telling people online about it? I have no idea
As someone who has a pretty shocking biological mother I'd say ALWAYS be willing to listen and as Ce gets older don't always be quick to give advice/examples of your own teenage life to try better his. That and hugs. I wish I had more affection. *boohoo me* end of ramble from me.
Point is, you're doing good. You all sound like fabbo mas here in your own ways.