question-opinions wanted

[jessica31876]

I am wondering something. I do not want to go into details online though so Im purposely trying to be kinda vague. It isnt about me personally but someone close to me and it has caused some problems for me so Im just wondering how other people feel about it. Here is the question if you were told someone in your family (meaning immediate or extended like in-laws) was unfaithful to their spouse would you say anything or keep it a secret? If I knew I would not say anything but somehow those kind of things have a way of getting out and then when they do and the person whos being cheated on finds out you knew they get mad at you or if you do say something and the person who is doing the cheating finds out you said something then that person gets mad at you so its really a lose/lose to me. I hate being put in that position to begin with honestly. I wish I could say what happened because its really bugging me but Im not sure if anyone I know would ever read it. Just suffice to say I was put in a really awkward position over 12 years ago and never said anything and it accidentally slipped out by someone else who also knew and now Im the one being blamed for the whole flipping mess