Breaking Point

[Ginger_79]

So sorry you have to go through that! I agree with anyone to ignore him completely. Also, knowing how most women work, make it impossible for yourself to be in contact. Block numbers, emails everything. Just leave him your laywers details. Tell your friends and family to not forward anything from him. To not even tell you when he tried. Tell them to stick with this, even if you change your mind later and ask them. Tell them, about the contractions and that they need to help you protecting yourself until the baby is born.

[Jengerbread88]

Wow. I had this awesome friend who promised to be there for me through everything, and then the day before yesterday, he sent me a goodnight message like normal. Then, he hasn't texted or responded to texts since then. So, one of my main forms of support (I go to school with him, and was going to ask him for backup if Kyle tried anything while I was at school), is completely gone. I texted him this morning about my aunt passing away in the morning, and their fears that the other won't make it til afternoon, and still nothing.

Not hearing from him for 30+ hours is unusual... it hurts not having the support I thought I'd have.

[adrianka]

Originally Posted by Jengerbread88

Wow. I had this awesome friend who promised to be there for me through everything, and then the day before yesterday, he sent me a goodnight message like normal. Then, he hasn't texted or responded to texts since then. So, one of my main forms of support (I go to school with him, and was going to ask him for backup if Kyle tried anything while I was at school), is completely gone. I texted him this morning about my aunt passing away in the morning, and their fears that the other won't make it til afternoon, and still nothing.

Not hearing from him for 30+ hours is unusual... it hurts not having the support I thought I'd have.

You see, people can get ill / have their cell phones broken or stolen / feel like not communicating for whatever reason etc. This may mean nothing.

[lovely1m]

Most men do this kind of crap. Its a power struggle. Believe me, my ex likes to pull that crap, too. I know he would never get custody, nor would he want custody, its just a way of hurting us. Be careful getting too stressed out, I had pre-term labor also, its scary, you have to keep yourself as stress free as possible. Stop talking to him, period. Once Zach is born, you can let him know and let him decide if he wants to be a part of his life.

[Jengerbread88]

Originally Posted by adrianka

You see, people can get ill / have their cell phones broken or stolen / feel like not communicating for whatever reason etc. This may mean nothing.

Yes, these things can happen. But having a personal history with someone, and knowing that in the past 2 years, the only time they've ever dropped contact without warning, something REALLY bad happened to them, doesn't make me any less worrysome. It makes me believe that something truly bad happened to cause him not to respond at all. His phone isn't broken- it's turned on currently, or it would go straight to voice mail the time that I called. And when my friend hasn't felt like communicating, or even gotten ill to the point of hospitalization, he has still sent a message letting me know the situation beforehand. So yes, it could mean nothing, but with my personal history with him, I know better than to just sit and believe it's nothing.

[Chels85]

Just ignore him and just focus on you and Zach, don't let him pull you down.